Britney Spears probably thought Kevin Federline was her soulmate when she married him, but two years later, their 'perfect' marriage fizzled and Britney realized she'd only found a marriage temp in Federline. Actress Renee Zellweger probably felt the exact same way when she married singer Kenny Chesney on a romantic beach in the Caribbean. Four months later, her divorce papers cited 'fraud' as the reason for the demise of the marriage.

So how does a girl know if the guy she's swooning over is really her soulmate? Is it just a leap of faith or are there tell-tale signs? The short answer - it's really a mixture of both. We can't predict the future. If we could, many of us wouldn't have dated the jerks, liars or cheaters that we have in the past. We would have known that those relationships weren't going to last and not wasted even one second on them.

But, alas, when we meet a guy that piques our interest, all we can do is take that leap of faith and check out these key signs to determine if we've found our soulmate. Can you be yourself when you're around him? Not the self that glams up with make-up and a nice outfit every time you see him, the self that wears no make-up, ratty sweatpants and hair in a bun when he's around. If he's not grossed out by the sight of you when you're not in supermodel mode, he may be a keeper.

Are your secrets safe with him? We've all got secrets, but are your secrets going to be held in confidence with him. Can you safely tell him about the time you ran a red light and ended up in jail because your license was suspended? Or the time you cheated on your ex? If you can tell him your deepest secrets and he doesn't judge or alienate you, he may very well be a keeper! Are his ears full of wax? Does he really listen to you and value your opinion? If so, then you might have your soulmate